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10 THINGS MEN WISH WOMEN KNEW ABOUT SEX
Learn what he really wants in the bedroom and why, with these genius sex tips and advice.
Freud called female sexuality " the dark continent "; if that ' s true, male sexuality could qualify as the dark planet. But when it comes to sex, guys are simple, right? Not true. The bedroom is one of the great stages of male performance, and as such, what you see and hear is typically the role, not the reality. It ' s no wonder, in trying to please the actor, a woman loses sight of a guy ' s true identity. Here are 10 " unmasking " facts you may want to know:
1. WE RESPOND
TO PRAISE
2. WE LIKE IT WHEN YOU TALK
Talking during sex stimulates more than our ears. What kind of talk? Dirty, praising and instructive are great starts. As amusing as it ay sound, a woman ' s words can make a guy feel as potent and virile as a Roman gladiator, even if he ' s a suburban banker.
It ' s believed that men are so consumed by our libido that we have no selfconsciousness surrounding sex. But men are no different from women when it comes to compliments as catalysts for sexual confidence. This praise can be delivered before reaching the bedroom( give us the once-over and tell us how buff we look), and after( give us the once-over and tell us how buff we look naked). Along those lines, men worry about the size of their penis, their hair( or lack thereof) and other attributes. Try to be extra affirming about those sensitivities.