Flirtology - Fearless Flirting Module Three | Page 11

C

hances are, your old model is not
working and it is making you
unhappy. How do you solve this?
Make a new one! Is it really that
easy? Yes! If the whole world is
subjective, than why not let it be
subjective in our favour? This new
model is just as true as your old one,
but even better, because it will make
you happy!

Exercise Two:
Choose a new dating mental model
Here are some suggestions for a new dating model:
• I would rather find the right partner later than the
wrong one now.
• I am just going to date and have fun without any
expectations.
• People like me because I am a good person.
• I don’t need a partner to start living my life. I can do
that now.
You can choose whatever model you’d like. The important
thing is that you believe it, start collecting ‘evidence’ to
support it, and disregard anything that doesn’t fit; this is
how we change thought patterns.