Before the Play
Foreplay does not start in the
bedroom. It starts when you send your
partner a thoughtful text message
during the day or when you call them
to tell them how much you love them.
It starts with being thoughtful and
remembering things that are
important to your partner. It starts
when you walk through the door and
offer to help with dinner or bath the
kids.
It's the little things that you do for
your partner that pay off in the long
run rather than only switching on the
romance when you feel 'up for it'. So
many FIFO wives and partners
anticipate the reunion with their
partner and are then disappointed
when it turns into a wham bam thank
you mam. We hear about foreplay all
the time... how to turn your partner on,
techniques and tips for the lead up to
sex. However foreplay is so much more
than that, it literally means "before the
play". In the lead up top seeing your
partner, slow things down and start
the foreplay before you even see them.
A romantic and appreciated partner is
far more likely to engage with you
sexually
than someone who feels taken for
granted and rushed. It doesn't have to
be large gestures and it doesn't have to
cost any money, all you need
Published by Lifeskills Centre April 14, 2015