What first inspired you to step into this line of work?
I didn’t grow up saying, “I want to be a dating coach.” But as a teenager, I knew I wanted to help people break free from pain and constraints. What ultimately pulled me in was watching incredibly capable women—leaders, entrepreneurs, and world travelers—hit a wall in their love lives.
They could handle mergers and boardrooms, but a text from the wrong guy could leave them sleepless. That contrast fascinated me. I dove into psychology, neuroscience, and attachment science, but more importantly, I listened. Thousands of stories and deep conversations later, what inspires me most is seeing a woman realize she doesn’t have to shrink or settle to be loved. Watching her reclaim her energy, boundaries, and joy—that’s what hooked me.
Why does dating abroad feel so different—even intimidating—for high-achievers?
Because the skills that work in business rarely translate to intimacy. Abroad, even the most accomplished woman loses her “home-field” advantage. Her professional network isn’t there to validate her, and the cultural cues can feel unfamiliar.
That wobble can feel disorienting—but it’s actually an opportunity. Vulnerability is one of the keys to deep connections. It softens the need to lead with credentials and opens space for curiosity, laughter, and authentic connection—things that matter far more than a résumé line.
You talk about the concept of the “second self” when traveling. Can you explain that?
Think of your “second self” as ultimate freedom—the version of you that emerges when you’re outside your usual orbit. Neuroscience shows novelty rewires the brain, loosening rigid roles. At home, you might feel pressure to lead with your career title; abroad, you can introduce yourself as the woman who wandered Florence’s side streets in search of espresso or danced salsa nights in Mexico City.
This shift—from credentials to curiosity—often feels more authentic and makes you more magnetic, because you’re revealing your essence instead of performing.