11. They’re Never Wrong and They Never Apologize
Accountability isn’t in a narcissist’s vocabulary. They never admit to being wrong, and they certainly won’t apologize. If you bring up an issue or try to give constructive feedback, they’ll either dismiss it or react with anger. Criticism feels like a personal attack on them, and they’ll do anything to avoid it, including shifting the blame onto you.
12. Poor Communication
Narcissists are notoriously bad communicators when it comes to their emotions. They’ll shut down or become defensive when you try to address relationship issues. Rather than working through problems together, they’ll withdraw or stonewall, leaving you feeling unheard and frustrated. They will often lie and be deceitful with you about issues that arise instead of dealing with the problems head on.
13. Non-Committal
While they might initially appear committed, narcissists are often unable or unwilling to fully invest in a long-term relationship. They view relationships as transactional—once they’ve won you over, their interest fades, and they start seeking validation somewhere else. You may feel like you’re never truly getting the emotional connection you need. They may cheat or have emotional affairs behind your back as they try and fulfill their egos with other victims.
14. Silent Treatment & Ghosting
If things don’t go their way, narcissists may resort to the silent treatment. They’ll ignore you, withhold affection, or cut you off entirely as a way to punish you and maintain control. Ghosting, where they disappear without explanation, is another tactic they use to avoid accountability and leave you in emotional limbo. They may come back to try to be with you again and again if you will allow it.
15. Uncertainty in the Relationship
With a narcissist, you’re never quite sure where you stand. You’ll often second-guess their feelings for you, and there’s a constant sense that the relationship could fall apart at any moment. Narcissists thrive on keeping you off-balance, making you question your future together.
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The Bottom Line: You Deserve Better
If you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, or even suspect it, take action now. Seek professional help to rebuild your self-esteem and learn how to establish firm boundaries. If necessary, cut ties with the toxic person and remind yourself why you’re better off without them. Life is too short to waste on someone who doesn’t value you. Know your worth and believe that someone out there will treasure you the way you deserve. You’re worthy of love, respect, and kindness—don’t settle for less.