Fete Lifestyle Magazine October 2021 - Best Of Issue | Page 31

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nyone that is ready to get

out there and meet new

people should just go for it.

There’s no time like the present. Here are some helpful tips to keep in mind once someone decides to take that step to finding love:

1.Be the best version of you that you can be. Practice being happy and content with who you are, where you are in life, and the people that are around you.

2.Brag about yourself, show confidence, talk about things you are proud of. Talk about your accomplishments; kids, career, if you’ve done volunteer work, where you have traveled, your passions and hobbies, what you have done in your life.

3.Let them brag about themselves as well.

4.Confidence is an attractive quality. Displaying your confidence draws people in and shows them you’re not afraid to be your true self.

5.Don’t play games. Be aggressive and show someone you like them. Don’t let the opportunity pass you by. Sometimes the other person is waiting to see a sign that you

are interested, if you don’t relay that sign, they might just think you’re not interested in pursuing the relationship.

6.Don’t try to be someone you’re not. People will like you for who you are, or they won’t. So many times, I see people trying to be someone they think the other person would like and this will always backfire. You can’t keep up that act up forever, so just be yourself.

7.Approach meeting someone new like you’re meeting a new friend and don’t take everything too seriously. Being nervous is normal and give them the benefit of the doubt that they are nervous too.

8.Ask questions, show you’re interested in getting to know the person. By asking questions, you can dig deeper into getting to know them. Make direct eye contact and be attentive. Giving complements is always a nice way to show you like someone, and who doesn’t love a complement. As always, have fun and enjoy yourself every single day.