re you single and
looking for the
right person?
Have you been frustrated with dating and not finding the right one? It’s easy to be discouraged, but don’t give up!
Even after a bad date be positive. Laugh about it with your friends, but don’t get discouraged. There are a lot of fish in the sea, so keep trying with an open heart until you find the one you are searching for.
Try not to be too desperate and all-consuming to find someone. You can smell desperation a mile away. Stay busy with friends, family, your kids, and hobbies. When you stay busy and fulfilled, a significant other will just be the cherry on top of your already beautiful life. You will be more likely to find your soulmate when you’re happy and fulfilled internally and mentally.
Don’t forget about your friends while dating. Make dates on your off nights and keep your friends in the loop. It’s nice to have a good support system throughout your dating journey.
Having an immediate physical connection doesn’t always happen. Sometimes a person’s personality, integrity, and how you get along is attractive, and you can grow to be physically attracted to them. When looks fade you’re left with who the person is on the inside. Give someone a second date if you had good conversation and you felt there were things you have in common. It takes time to get to know a person well and you can’t always know after an hour’s long dinner date.
Think you will be able to change someone? Think again. You really can’t change people, so my advice is to take them or leave them. Their outer appearance and fashion may change, but not who they actually are.
Dating should be fun. Your mindset when you meet someone should be to make a new friend. If you hit it off, great. If not, then at least you enjoyed yourself and had a nice evening out. If you’re burned out on dating, take a break, reassess, and try again. It’s all about timing and you never know when the timing will work out so keep doing everything you can to put yourself out there and when it’s meant to be it will be.
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