That being said solo travel is not for everyone and frankly, not for every place, especially if you are a woman. With the turbulent times in which we live, thought and precaution are needed. However, the benefits of a singular adventure, if done well, can far exceed the risk. So how does one embark on a solo trip? Let me share a few tips that I have learned:
1.) Know yourself – If you do not enjoy your own company, bore easily alone and truly prefer the comfort, energy and security of a group setting, solo travel may not be for you. What does Polonius say in Hamlet? “To thine own self be true ...” Be true to yourself first and foremost.
2.) Start Small – If you are not an experienced world traveler, but aspire to be, plan short small trips to get started. I started by planning a simple 5 day trip to a resort in San Diego by myself over a dozen years ago. I built upon my solo trips over the years to now find myself settled into the South of France for 5 weeks. Solo travel is a marathon and not a sprint so start small and grow big!
3.) Do your research – Learn something about the destination before you go and especially understand the culture, customs and even the currency. Also, consider a language course beforehand. Knowing a little something before you get there can ease anxiety and costly mistakes. I also highly recommend any of Rick Steve’s travel books. Best travel guides ever!
4.) Be Safe – Know the social and political climate of the destination. If there is a consulate or embassy be sure to register your trip. In case of emergencies, officials will know you are in the country and where to find you. Leave your full itinerary and contact information with someone back home and check in regularly on social media or use smartphone apps such as “Viber”, “Skype” or “Whatsapp” to let people know where you are and that you are okay.
5.) Be Open – Solo travel is about not only taking a journey to another place, but also to yourself. Leave the judgment behind and open up to the growth that the experience brings.