5. End with a Question or Call to Action
Keep the conversation alive by inviting a response with an open-ended question or suggestion.
Why It Works:
Ending with a question or a call to action ensures the conversation doesn’t fizzle out. Examples:
“What’s something you’ve always wanted to try but haven’t yet?”
“That reminds me—there’s this [event/restaurant/activity] I’ve been meaning to check out. Want to go with me?”
This approach is direct but not pushy, making it easier for them to respond.
4. Keep It Short and Sweet
When you’re shy, there’s a tendency to overthink or write long paragraphs, but less is often more.
Why It Works:
Short, engaging texts are easier to reply to, and they keep the conversation flowing naturally. Examples:
Try:
“What’s one thing you love about [topic]?”
When making plans, avoid overcomplicating:
“Want to grab coffee Thursday? I know a great spot!”
Being concise shows confidence and prevents overwhelm.