Fete Lifestyle Magazine February 2019 - Relationships. Our 50 Issue. | Page 37

never choose to relive that situation or that conversation again, but I’m proud of myself. That situation was only one of many uncomfortable and stressful, yet rewarding, scenarios I have encountered with my friends. As a result, my friends and I have only gotten closer because of the honesty we each displayed.

Both I and my friendships have matured and been enriched by situations such as these and I now have confidence in myself and my feelings and have somehow found a way to express them without completely losing it. Who knows how my relationships will be 3 months from now let alone years from now, but at least I know that I am capable and confident enough to honestly express how I feel in order to continue to nurture my friendships. That is not only reassuring, but also encouraging because now I understand that vulnerability is not a weakness, but rather a crucial asset for all interpersonal facets of my life.