Fete Lifestyle Magazine December 2016 Holiday Issue | Page 63

Set quarterly ‘give back’ calendar reminders to keep giving back on your priority list throughout the year. This could be one day every quarter spent volunteering, or cleaning out your closets and cupboards and donating the items to a local shelter or simply making a monetary donation to your favorite charity.

If you’ve ever ‘adopted a family’ for the holidays which is very popular to

help provide food and toys for

families who cannot afford it -

think of other times

throughout the year that

same family might need

your help. Maybe you

adopt them for a full

year? What about

school supplies and

basic essentials like a

comfortable pair of

shoes right before

schoolstarts? How about

some donations toward

things like annual physical

exams that are so important

for maintaining good health?

There’s always the ‘pay it forward’

concept. I can’t get enough of paying it forward, and I’m surprised by the number of people I know who have never had a chance to experience this. I’ve been lucky enough to have a highway toll paid for me one time and a cup of coffee another. It absolutely made my day both times and I was so excited I couldn’t wait to do the same for someone else! The person behind you in line may or may not be ‘in need’ per se, but I don’t think we need any scientific research to prove that the world is a better place when we focus on trying to make each other smile. Maybe give yourself a calendar reminder to do this for at least one person every month.

I’m sure these examples alone already have you thinking of other simple things you can do throughout the year to spread the love. There is something truly magical about what we call the holiday spirit. Just imagine if that spirit was alive and thriving the whole year through.