Fete Lifestyle Magazine August 2025 - Empowerment & Expression Issue | Page 39

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Make Time for Dating

Yes, parenting is a full-time job but so is taking care of yourself. Carve out space in your schedule to date, even if it’s just once or twice a month. You’re not being selfish; you’re investing in your love life and happiness.

Start Small

Skip the elaborate first dates. Begin with coffee or a casual lunch to see if there's chemistry. If there is, great! Plan something longer for the second or third date.

Don’t Introduce the Kids Too Soon

Protect your children’s emotional space. Wait until the relationship feels solid—when you're exclusive, consistently spending time together, and envisioning a future—before bringing them into the picture.

Watch for Red Flags

  • Love bombing or to meet your kids too early

  • Disrespecting your time or boundaries

  • Inconsistent communication or lack of effort

  • Remember: if they’re interested, they’ll make the time. Actions always speak louder than words.

    Most of All—Have Fun

    Dating should feel exciting, not exhausting. Don’t put too much pressure on the process. Enjoy yourself, stay hopeful, and know that the right person will come at the right time.

    Wishing you a season full of joy, confidence, and connection.

    You've got this!