Fete Lifestyle Magazine August 2023 - Anything Goes Issue | Page 41

oasting with wine

is a time-honored

tradition that can

be found in various cultures around the world. It is a way to show gratitude, honor, and appreciation to your guest of honor and/or guests. Delivering a toast can be a stressful experience, especially if you're not sure where to start. When it comes to delivering a wine toast, there are a few things to keep in mind to make the experience a little less intimidating. Here are some helpful guidelines to make the most of your next wine toast:

Who gives the toast? Traditionally, the host of a dinner party or event would be the one to give a toast, as a way of welcoming guests and thanking them for coming. If you are a guest, don’t toast before the hostess.

Keep your toast brief: Take a moment to gather your thoughts and think about what you want to say. Make sure the toast is relevant to both the person and occasion. A good idea would be to have a basic outline of your toast in mind before you begin speaking. A good wine toast should be short and simple and sweet and sincere. Avoid rambling by keeping the wine toast no more than a minute or two.

Toasting is about inclusion: Before you begin a toast, make sure that everyone has a glass of poured wine or nonalcoholic drink (for those who are underage or don’t drink) in their hands. It is considered bad luck to toast with an empty glass. It's traditional to stand up and raise your glass by the stem as you begin your toast, thus having a glass of wine in your hand is a must. Raise your glass and make eye contact with each person around the table as you make your toast.

Begin by addressing the group and then turn your attention to the individual you're toasting. Speak clearly and with confidence and pause for effect when appropriate.

Cheers! Make it clear you are ending the toast by saying something traditional like "Cheers!" and take a sip of your wine.

Clinking Glasses: It is customary to make eye contact and clink glasses with the person next to you. The host or guest of honor should be the last person to raise their glass and the first to take a sip. In proper etiquette always take a sip to show you share in the sentiments expressed in the toast.

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