3.Having unrealistic expectations. Thinking the person needs to be perfect in every way and being too critical of them is not realistic. We are not perfect, and neither is your new beau. Give them grace and let them be who they are.
4.Moving too fast. Get to know the person and make sure you are on the same page. Build a strong friendship, bond, and foundation early.
5.Ignoring red flags. There are red flags for a reason, don’t disregard your intuition on things that come up. Major issues are usually deal breakers. Don’t waste your time on someone with these deal breakers.
6.Playing games. Communicate your availability. So many times, people are busy with their lives that they don’t give their new budding relationship enough time and attention, and that could be detrimental in the beginning.
7.Don’t be controlling. Has anyone been with someone that’s jealous or controlling? It might be cute in the beginning thinking they always want to know where you are or need to be with you, but in the long term it’s a very unhealthy relationship to be a part of.
8.Stop comparing them to your ex. Give them a new fresh chance. When you compare every little thing, you will sabotage the relationship. Also, remember you’re not with your ex for many reasons, so comparing them isn’t the best choice.
9.Don’t forget about your friends, family, and hobbies. So many times, people drop everything for a new beau in their lives, don’t forget about the other people in your life.
10.Poor Communication. Sometimes we just think people should know what we want and need. Most of the time that is not the case. Communicate your feelings and what you need because if we don’t, they cannot and will not read our minds.