Fete Lifestyle Magazine April 2016 | Seite 59

When my husband and I were dating and getting pretty serious we decided to take a trip down to the keys. I thought that sounded really romantic. This would be the first time we…well, you know. He had a friend that owned one of those sex toy stores and he mentioned he was going to stop by there and get a “candle”…I said, “A candle?”….he smiled and said, “yes a candle” Ok, my heart is racing and I’m a little freaked out. What will he show up with? Some sort of leather contraption or sexy edible undies? OMG…I was counting the miles as we drove to our romantic hideaway in the Keys. There was plenty of flirting. I was so excited. Then, the time came as we were unpacking our suitcases and he takes out a gift bag and hands it to me and grinned. I looked inside and there it was! A CANDLE! Hahahahah I laughed so hard.

Sexy can be that low cut top that shows off your assets or the "Eau So Sexy" you dab behind each ear. Maybe it's your windblown hair that does it. Perhaps just the way you carry yourself or..... you can eat black licorice … and donuts! Studies suggest the scent of black licorice turns men on. The Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago did a study that looked at how different smells had an impact on sexual arousal. Hubba hubba. The smell of black licorice increased blood flow to the penis by 13 percent. When combined with the smell of donuts, that number jumped to 32 percent. Ok, now you're Googling black licorice donuts, right? Don't bother....I found "Licorice and Donut 'Arousing' Perfume" No kidding!!

https://www.etsy.com/listing/61610498/licorice-and-donut-arousing-perfume

Here are a few that I actually agree with…bright red, juicy strawberries dipped in chocolate. But it’s not all in the food. More likely they way you eat it. Hey, is it getting warm in here? Anyway, another one I think is interesting is a banana. Not just the shape but apparently it has Bromelain and B vitamins that make guys amorous. I’ve heard that asparagus kind of works like an aphrodisiac but I think it just makes your pee smell. NOT SEXY. You know what I think IS sexy?

Confidence, sense of humor, a great smile, eye contact and ….a guy that will do the dishes. Seriously! But mostly… it’s the anticipation. Even if it’s just a “candle.” ~Susan