Femme Plus August 2017 | Page 42

S W ocial Networks & What NOT to do hile Dating by Karlicia Lewis I n this technology-crazed world we live in, social networks like Facebook and Twitter have become like electronic diaries for many people, especially women. From the biggest, life-changing news all the way to what you cooked earlier for dinner, everyone feels the need to update their status, letting the world in on their day-to-day. However, this behaviour has been a big factor in the downfall of many relationships. Here are a few tips to help keep social networking from causing problems in your relationships. T he world doesn ’ t have to know everything . It’s very tempting having an “update status” button so conveniently placed everywhere you look, especially now that smartphones rule the world. However, there are some things that probably shouldn’t be shared with the rest of the world, such as sexual thoughts and rendezvous, reasons for breakups, who/when/wheres of being cheated on, etc. There aren’t too many people out there that want to date someone that puts every single thought and action out into the cyber- page 42 world. Maintain a sense of mystery, it’s more attractive. Privacy is more important to relationships than popu- larity….or it should be. D on ’ t use social networks to stalk . Facebook has become a very easy way to “keep tabs” on the person you’re dating, and all the steps of their past. Countless numbers of women spend hours and hours searching for in- formation that can incriminate their partner, or to find out information about their exes. Both of these be-