3 . Learn to embrace or change your flaws .
4 . Find your passion .
5 . Stop being fearful . Don ’ t be afraid to fail .
6 . Dance in front of the mirror !
your favorite places ALONE . It ’ s important to be alone so you learn how to entertain yourself . This world can be a lonely place at times . So it ’ s best to know how to be alone for when those times come . Learn to love to be with yourself . This tip is also helpful for learning yourself , and your personality .
3 . Learn to embrace or change your flaws .
This tip falls right after taking time out for yourself . As stated previously , being alone allows you to learn yourself and your personality . We all know we all have flaws , some greater than others , but they are flaws nevertheless . Some of these traits deemed are “ negative ” can also be flipped into a positive if you learn that the specific flaw isn ’ t so bad after all , or that it adds a quirk to your personality . I ’ ll use myself as an example ; I ’ m a child at heart , so it can read as a juvenile personality trait . This used to bum me out because as I got older I felt as if I ’ m still immature , or a late bloomer . I ’ m learning to embrace this trait because I realized it ’ s just something I naturally am , and it can actually add cuteness to my personality . I embraced my childish personality trait flaw , but I learned to be the “ good kid ”, and not the “ bad apple ”. That ’ s me using something I viewed as a flaw as a positive to just add to my personality .
4 . Find your passion .
When you start to spend more time with yourself and begin to learn yourself you realize what you truly want to do with yourself and your life . Take personality- career tests , jot down your dreams and aspirations , have a sit down with like minded people and figure out their passion and / or journey to recognizing that passion . Once you find this , you ’ ll find your purpose , and finding your purpose gives you a sense of meaning and importance . It gives you something to strive and plan for . Just simply finding your purpose can give you a feeling of success .
5 . Stop being fearful . Don ’ t be afraid to fail .
With that passion , you cannot be afraid to chase your dreams ! When planning out your career goals , life goals , relationship goals , etc do not be afraid to not fail ! Real defeat happens when you don ’ t try . And real defeat can lead to depression and can depreciate the love you have for yourself . Do not self sabotage ! It takes away from your confidence . Do not be afraid to try , and if you don ’ t succeed at the try . At least you know you will have no regrets because you gave your all .
6 . Dance in front of the mirror !
This tip is very important and builds confidence for your outer appearance . We all have insecurities about our bodies , most of us aren ’ t truly happy with how we ’ re shaped or our weight . But stripping down and dancing in the mirror can definitely help . Stand in front of the mirror , pick what you like about yourself and focus on that as you dance , or if there ’ s a certain dance move you figure out you look good doing , do that ! Looking at yourself and dancing can help you feel sexier , and self assured because your learning how your body moves and how it looks as it moves !
We ’ re all a work in progress , we all could love ourselves more , of course these tips may not work for everyone one , but these tips can be the beginning steps to accomplishing true self love . And to live a truly happy life it ’ s essential we love ourselves unconditionally .