Fashion Observer Magazine Sept. 2014 | Page 115

With the highest standards of service, luxurious accommodations, breathtaking mountain views and innovative dining with the finest of Ayurvedic, Asian and Western cuisine based on the values of traditional cooking, Ananda is an internationally recognised oasis offering an enriching experience designed to restore, renew and revitalise. As a guest I immersed myself in a complete rejuvenation experience in the 21,000 square foot spa, with an extensive selection of therapies in the 21 treatment. The Spa also features luxurious hydrotherapy facilities, a Beauty Institute, outdoor temperature-controlled swimming pool, sauna, steam rooms, fully equipped gymnasium. Experiencing the way of life at Ananda I learned to embrace and honor the standards by which I wish to live. To design a life with meaning and material success, there was still the lesson of being free to be me that I was yet to conquer. As in Israel, the women in India also find it difficult to feel free to wear what they want, to dress in a way that is comfortable for them and not be ruled by the outdated “laws” of modesty. The Hindu belief is that modesty through appropriate dress has the energy to transmit spirit and substance. The Sari worn by Hindu women covers her navel and legs in contrast to the dress of Hindu deities and other symbolism in Hindu temples and the art works of Hinduism which is explicit, celebrating eroticism and human sexuality. Modesty laws vary in degrees from one culture to another with each major religion having developed their own set of moral codes covering issues of sexuality, morality and ethics. This outdated “law” was created by man, not by a creator who made us beautiful and sensual. What I’ve come to understand is that modesty can mean many things and that the lustful stares of men should not have women running for cover and as Kurt Cobain said “I’d rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not”. I believe we all need to be true to ourselves, however that may look and that not covering our shoulders, wearing jeans or exposing our knees, doesn’t need to mean that we are not respectable women. What I discovered in India was a gre at appreciation for myself, my style and my soul and maybe we should all stop following the modesty advice from our Rabbi’s or Popes and listen to Marilyn Monroe instead “Your clothes should be tight enough to show you’re a woman, but loose enough to show you’re a lady”.