Family & Life Magazine Issue 9 | Page 15

court more companies to volunteer not just their money but their time and efforts. She wants to increase the public’s awareness regarding the issue of the invisible poor, of the people who have neither the means nor the capabilities to break out of the vicious cycle of the less privileged. “When we do charity work simply by giving money, you don’t get to see where your money is going to. More importantly, you don’t get to see the problem!” says Wei Ling. THE HEIGHTS AND THE HEARTLANDS Singapore’s glitzy façade is intoxicating, her alluring bright and beautiful skyline enticing the wealthy and the glamorous. Venture deeper and you’ll start to see the city-state’s underbelly – older folks clearing tables, a single mother working two jobs before rushing home after work to cook dinner, and a family of six sharing a meal of boiled rice and cabbage and sleeping in one room. They are the invisible poor, left behind while the economic juggernaut that is Singapore forges ahead. at least until I brought the topic up. “It’s a waste for me to retire right?” questions Wei Ling before going on to say that she would probably focus more on her charitable efforts and spend more time with her grandchildren. The four of them are an entertaining lot and bring a lot of joy to dear Wei Ling. She’s already cultivated a love for singing and dancing in them (“My grandchildren find me a fun- loving grandmother!”) and tries as much as possible to teach them the principles in life – that of choice and genuineness – that she holds dear. But, most importantly, she wants them to be happy, to seek the simple pleasures, spread the joy and not worry about what others think. And occasionally, all you need to be contented in life is a wee flamingo. Her idea: specially arranged visits to homes and families of the sick, elderly or less privileged so people have the opportunity to see a world different from their own with their own eyes. SLOWING DOWN? NOT A CHANCE Wei Ling is a feisty grand dame. While her peers are kicking back their legs and enjoying their golden years, thoughts of retirement have never entered Wei Ling’s mind, well, It is a world that Wei Ling readily admits she has not personally experienced until the inception of Project We Care. “Becoming the chairperson of Project We Care has led me to garner numerous experiences, many of which I’ve never had the fortune of experiencing in the past six decades of my life,” she says. “I’ve read many articles in the papers and magazines about the less fortunate in Singapore but I hav