Family & Life Magazine Issue 7 | Page 19

Turn Off & Tune In: By Maureen Schuster Banishing Digital Addiction In China, there are military-style boot camps to treat teenagers with Internet and digital addiction. In fact, China is the first country in the world to recognise this addiction as a clinical disorder. Take a look around the next time you’re out in public and you’ll see the same scenes unfolding everywhere; people of all ages with their heads bowed down and engulfed in the digital world. It’s time to take a stand. Picture this, a beautiful Sunday afternoon at a restaurant on the water at Clarke Quay. A family of four dines on lunch sets with colourful salads and sandwiches piled high with cheese, lettuce and ripe tomatoes. The family is not engaged in conversation; instead their noses are buried deep in smart phones and tablets. Even as the server sets the decadent desserts on the table, no one looks up to say “thank you” or to marvel at the chocolaty goodness placed in front of them. They keep one hand on their devices and the other to reach for their spoons and mindlessly eat in silence. It’s a common sight on weekend afternoons in Singapore. Even the youngest members of the family are not immune to the media craze. A 2013 study discovered that one out of every three children are using digital devices before they even know how to speak! Technology is here to stay. We need it to run businesses and governments, complete school work, and basically manage our lives. But what happens when connecting with family takes a back seat to television, smart phones, and video gaming systems? It means that it’s time to make a change; turn off the electronics and spend more screen-free time with your family. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that children under the age of two should not be watching television or using digital devices at all. Older children should also limit all forms of digital time to two hours or less per day. Unfortunately, today’s youth are clocking in substantially more than two hours of digital device usage, and technology without limits may have negative outcomes. Children who regularly use technology for more excessive periods of time are more likely to be overweight, have poor grades, suffer sleeping problems, and have difficulty maintaining personal relationships. Barbara Brock, researcher and author of Living Outside the Box: TV-Free Families Share Their Secrets, reports: “In recent years, there has been a demise of reading, family interaction, and social skills. With the hours of screen time going through the roof, it’s easy to draw a parallel between these two distinct activity groups.” UNPLUGGING THE FAMILY: DO’S AND DON’TS  lead by example. As the parent, you are your children’s most significant Do role model. Let your kids see you being actively engaged in life by participating in academic pursuits, exercising, reading, volunteering and being involved in hobbies.  make it easy on yourself. Make the transition to reduced screen time Do less painful by preparing alternative activitie ́Ѽ