Family & Life Magazine Issue 4 | Page 8

COVERSTORY hout Fences Living Wit In Sentosa Cove Her home, a beautiful three-storey bungalow that has received a lot of attention in international publications, boasts a much sought-after postal code – 098098. That’s the number you need to write on the front of the envelope if you want to mail a letter to the denizens of Sentosa Cove, quite possibly one of the most desirable addresses in the world. Sara Taseer’s home in Sentosa Cove has no fences, a decision she made because of the trust she has in Singapore. Discover more about this luxury jeweller, her unique family philosophy and her storied past. Yet, Sara Taseer, 43, and her husband, financier Salman Shoaib, chose to not ring their abode with a security fence. In fact, as Sara was sitting on her plush couch and sharing her story with us, a golfer was rummaging in the shrubbery looking for an errant golf ball, some ten metres away from where we were seated. We were separated only by a glass door. Does it not bother you? “No, it doesn’t. It’s actually one of the reasons why I love Singapore – the safety. The country is one of the few places in the world that allows us to live without fences and boundaries, which adds to the quality of life and our peace of mind.” Sara has every reason to put her family’s safety as her one of her top considerations when deciding where to live. Her father Salmaan Taseer was a prominent and outspoken Pakistani By Farhan Shah businessman and politician who had been viciously gunned down in 2011 by one of his bodyguards. The reason: the assassin disagreed with Salmaan’s vocal opposition to Pakistan’s blasphemy law. And just seven months later, the Taseer family was rocked again by another tragedy. Sara’s brother, Shahbaz, was kidnapped by unknown abductors. According to Pakistani police, a group of armed men forcibly commandeered Shahbaz’s vehicle at a busy traffic intersection and took him away. Two years later, Shahbaz is still in their hands.* Sara admits that those were really dark days, which left her emotionally and mentally shattered. “No one has any action plans when something terrible like this happens; I just had to learn to cope with it,” says Sara. The permanent resident and mother of three would set emotional milestones for herself. Every week, she would ask herself how she felt and if she was feeling better than she did the previous week, she knew she was recovering. There were multiple setbacks during her personal journey but slowly, she began to feel better and more alive again. The excellent support provided by her husband and children also helped immensely and now, Sara feels strong enough to re-start her annual pilgrimages to Pakistan, which she had stopped for close to two years, to visit her family. “The children and I go at least two to three times a year and while we’re there, we take precautions. I still love Pakistan after all,” says Sara, smiling. Indeed, Pakistan was where Sara made a name for herself. She was the country’s first female brokerage house owner to work in the stock exchange, a significant achievement back then when one considers Pakistan’s non-existent women’s rights. Her workplace was also where she first met her future husband, Salman. They were first introduced to each other in 1996, and after interacting regularly at corporate events, the both of them decided to take their relationship to the next level. In 1997, after dating for a year, Sara and Salman reached a crossroads. Salman had accepted a job offer from Credit Suisse in Hong Kong and the both of them had to decide how they wanted to bring the relationship forward. Their conundrum was solved when Salman proposed and soon, the both of them embarked on their nomadic global lifestyle, largely influenced by Salman’s burgeoning banking career. The lovebirds stayed in Hong If we don’t make a concerted effort to spend time with the children… then, before you know it, our children have become adults and we would wonder what happened during their growing years. 8 Family & Life • Dec 2013/Jan 2014