Family & Life Magazine Issue 13 | Page 14

FOCUS & The Farmer, the Patriot the Future Politician The gentle warrior wants to make the world a better place. I am somebody who respects any form of life as long as it is not evil. I respect homosexuals, etc. but unfortunately, not everybody sees it the way I see it. 14 Family & Life • Oct 2014 Words Farhan Shah Photos Glenn Lim About a decade ago, the Kranji countryside was merely an afterthought. It was a land of swaying lallang, occasionally pushed to the side by a young man in battle fatigues trying to find a comfortable place to rest, and roaming wild dogs who snapped at the heels of strangers or nuzzled up to them, depending on the time of day. Watches ticked slower, nature ran rampant, and the cool breeze caressing the farmers’ backs was the equivalent of modern airconditioning. Then, she came – galloped into town at the turn of the millennium like a modern-day Clint Eastwood on petroleum-powered, fourstroked horseback. The countryside would never be the same again, its landscape permanently transformed by the sheer force of will that Ivy Singh-Lim wielded. The feisty and opinionated sexagenarian never intended to become a farmer or the face of Bollywood Veggies, the bistro and farm she founded with her second husband Lim Ho Seng, former CEO of NTUC FairPrice. She was all set to move permanently to Australia and retire, and “probably get my money swindled by the white people”. Apparently, the universe had other plans for the self-proclaimed gentle warrior. When the husband of a close friend passed away, she returned to Singapore. Then, one day, the local newspaper beckoned her to open its pages. She saw the open tender for the unused piece of farmland where Bollywood Veggies now sits and decided to bid for it. That was where I found myself on a sunny Thursday morning, munching on the bistro’s signature chocolate banana cake while engaged in passionate discourse with arguably one of the most polarising woman in Singapore today about politics, the evil that lurks in our hearts, and the perpetual state of unhappiness that all of us seem to be mired in. Why are we always so unhappy, Ivy? Simple. It’s because politics and religion create fear in people. I call it the 3Gs – the Government and Gods create Ghosts. Every day, you hear your government telling you that we must defend our country, so we buy a lot of guns and bombs and live in fear that our neighbours are going to shoot at us. When we were young, our neighbours loved us and we loved our neighbours! We knew that we needed each other to survive. Now, the politicians are telling everyone that there is a Ghost trying to shoot them. Religions are the same – religious groups quarrel with each other because each of them believe that it is the one, true belief. I don’t understand why we are making people insecure. The creation of insecurity makes people fearful and unhappy. I’m not insecure. I’m not frightened. I’m always happy. Yet, I see all this unhappy people around the world, which makes me unhappy. This problem is so entrenched in the world and it’s very hard to do something about it. What would you do about it? If you create an environment and a value system in which people are treasured and loved, then the people will not be worried, fearful or insecure every day. It’s so simple. Ensure that they have an education so that they can get good-paying jobs. Ensure that they have a good transport system so that they can get to work. Ensure that there is a robust and affordable healthcare system so that they can be fit. Why do we confuse life so much? I am disappointed and disgusted with what is happening around me. If I started a crusade, I can easily form a revolution. It’s not about going to arms. Rather, I want to create a