Family & Life Magazine Issue 10 | Page 30

LASTWORD A Mother’s He rt By Robert Middleton This month, we present a beautiful short story about the love of a mother penned by author and army veteran Robert Middleton. She leaned back on the couch and rested her head on the soft sofa cushion. She took a deep breath and then let it out. All the cares, frustrations, and worries seemed to leave her body in that one long breath. It had been too long since she’d had even a moment like this to herself. Every day was just full of noise, chaos, and kids, kids, kids. This was one of those moments. She closed her eyes and listened to the sound she cherished most: silence. It was such a strange phenomenon here at home. It seemed so foreign to her worn out ears. She took another breath and let it out. Ah, there it was – calmness returning to her soul. She’d almost forgotten what that was like. Before she had married, she had lived a life built solely around herself. She had put herself through college and obtained a nice job at a huge corporation. She could do what she wanted when she wanted. She really didn’t have to answer to anyone at any time. She was her own person. But, then, she got married and she ceased being an individual. She became a “we”. Now, it didn’t matter so much what she wanted to do but what “we” wanted to do. She had really just gotten used to being out on her own and she liked it very much. She would really say that she loved it. But, now those days were over. In many ways, she felt trapped and wanted to escape. A year later brought her first child. The following year another. And, her sense of self rapidly descended into oblivion. That sense of “we” grew exponentially. Suddenly her world seemed so much smaller and the world of others so much larger. She felt herself slipping away as the duties, responsibilities, and obligations of wife and mother consumed her life. And then there was the noise; the constant screams of babies. Those babies, she loved them. But, they were a constant chore. They cried, pooped, whined, laughed, cooed, coughed, sneezed, threw up, and cried, pooped, and whined all over again and again and again. She thought about her family. She thought about her kids and how they had taken up so much of her life. They were everything to her. They had made her who she was today. 30 Family & Life • Jul 2014 Then, just when those kids started calming down again, there was another. And, a year later another. The process started all over again. Now, everything was compounded again. It never