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Explore with Courage When Dr. Hendele graduated from Sacred Heart, he attended Saint Ignatius College Prep and participated in two study abroad programs—one in Italy and one in Japan. In reflecting upon these experiences, Dr. Hendele notes that while it wasn’t difficult to get accepted to the program, the actual experience of living abroad was challenging. This challenge, however, is what allowed him to grow as a person. James Hendele H’98 (3rd from left) is joined by his parents, John and Rachelle, and his wife, Heejai Kwon, at Angel Brunch. Dr. Hendele’s brothers, John H’96 and Joseph H’00, also went to Sacred Heart. When Dr. James Hendele H’98, featured speaker at the 2019 Angel Brunch, looks back upon his time at Sacred Heart, he remembers a “safe and comfortable place to grow up and learn life’s lessons.” Over the nine years that he spent at Sacred Heart, he grew to want to emulate those faculty and staff whom he felt saw him as a whole person. Today, as a medical doctor who has also lived, worked, and volunteered internationally, Dr. Hendele has more than lived up to those people and qualities he found so inspiring. Dr. Hendele credits his time at Sacred Heart for helping him to become “intellectually curious and confident.” He fondly remembers Mrs. Jody Stawicki’s passion for American history. Like many of his fellow alums, Mrs. Stawicki’s “Notable Americans” project left a lasting impression on him—he feels that it was essential in “developing confidence, poise, public speaking abilities, all of which are really foundational for success in any occupation.” He also found inspiration in the often-repeated story of St. Rose Philippine Duchesne and her incredible journey and life story. He admires that she accepted risk and challenges, believing in herself and the work that she was doing. “She was just willing to let the spirit and the world show her who she was going to be,” he says. St. Philippine’s life story, and the unfaltering support he received at Sacred Heart, provided him with the tools and the conviction needed to pursue and accomplish difficult things. Dr. Hendele’s love of experiencing new communities and cultures led him to college at St Andrews in Scotland, then into the Peace Corps. While in the Peace Corps, he lived in a rural village in southwestern Tanzania, where he taught math and science to secondary school students. Dr. Hendele encountered a multitude of hurdles on a daily basis, such as a lack of textbooks, language barriers, and needing to discern how best to teach basic math and science skills. He continued to grow as he faced each challenge. Over the nine years that he spent at Sacred Heart, he grew to want to emulate those faculty and staff whom he felt saw him as a whole person. Upon returning from the Peace Corps, Dr. Hendele began a new journey—he entered medical school at the University of Illinois at Chicago, where he recently completed his general surgical residency. Much like the alums before and after him, Dr. Hendele remembers more acutely the things he learned about himself at Sacred Heart rather than concrete facts and figures. The lessons that he took away—how to live as a good person, find meaning in service and selflessness, and cultivate self-awareness—are integral parts of who he is today. Like the Sacred Heart faculty and staff that he so admired, Dr. Hendele has chosen to lead by example and, he says, “To strive for equity and equality in the patients that I care for and the people that I meet.” To read an excerpt of Dr. Hendele’s Angel Brunch speech, see page 12. Alums Give It Their All Athletics is always about more than whatever sport is being played. It’s about values, determination, and team spirit. On May 31, Sacred Heart Schools celebrated current Academy and Hardey athletes at two assemblies. Invited to speak were two accomplished high school alums who shared their experi- ence of being a student-athlete: Max Tiemann H’15, who spoke to Hardey students, and Margaret Fleming A’15, who spoke to Academy students. While at Sacred Heart, Max ran cross country (3rd-8th grade), played basketball (4th-8th grade), volleyball (6th-8th grade) and flag football (8th grade). Then, as an active young alum, Max returned to Sheridan Road to coach 6th grade basketball for four years, as well as Biddy Basketball in fall 2018. Many current Hardey students were lucky enough to work with Max, who believes that it is better to play the game and give it your all than to never play the game. While he distinctly remembers both his wins and his losses over the years, he has found that the friends and relationships he formed through playing make him the happiest when he looks back at his Sacred Heart sports career. In high school at Saint Ignatius, Max got a surprise. He thought that he would play baseball for four years. Instead, he quit baseball after one year and began tennis, a sport in which he had never competed. Despite his lack of experience, he loved the sport so much that he played tennis for the remainder of high school. He encouraged the Hardey students to pursue what they love, even if they don’t win all the time. He says wisely, “Winning isn’t just defined by the final score—you win by giving it your all every time you play the game.” Like Max, Margaret played multiple sports at Sacred Heart: cross country, soccer, volleyball, and basketball for four years. In addition to sports, Margaret was also on yearbook and was in the Middle School musical all three years. She feels that being a student-athlete at Sacred Heart made her a well- rounded person. Margaret made a conscious decision in high school at Saint Ignatius to play only basketball—no other sports. While she excelled at her game and was co-captain of her team senior year, she was also co-editor-in-chief of her school news site, volunteered every week, led retreats, and served on multiple cultural club executive boards. Margaret feels that her decision led her to pursue other passions and interests. She loves that, “Sacred Heart never limited the kind of person I was,” and she is extremely grateful for the many athletic—and other—opportunities that she had on Sheridan Road. She inspired the Academy girls with this thoughtful reflection: “If we place ourselves inside of one box, one sport, one club, one friend, or one personality trait, we’re letting the world define us as that one thing. You are never going to be just one thing.” We wish them all the best this fall when Max goes on to Marquette University to study business and Margaret goes to Northwestern University to study journalism. (above) Margaret Fleming A’15, middle, is welcomed back by Margot DiMuzio, Assistant Athletic Director, and Matt Manley, Athletic Director. (left) Max Tiemann H’15 meets with his former buddy, Ignatius Doherty H5, for a bit of catching up! FALL 2019 11