Faith Filled Family Magazine October 2016 | Page 87

sue instead of holding onto resentment, anger or frustration. Peace will set the atmosphere for God to speak so each one must keep peace as the goal to any disagreement. Use your authority over strife and refuse to let it live in your home. 2. Close the Door to Financial Frustration- Finances are one of the main causes of divorce. It’s not the lack of finances but how each one handles finances. Learning to agree on how finances will be managed is important. When their is a need it’s great when both can do their best in the natural and believe God together for the impossible. If not, we tend to blame the other for the problem. If one is the spender and one is the saver then both still need to come to an agreement how they will manage and where the boundaries lie. This kind of agreement will allow you to pray together and stand on God’s Word to believe that He will meet all of your needs according to His Riches! When both are taking responsibility then standing on His promises together will allow you to walk in authority to declare His favor and provision over your home. all called to love and serve and marriage is the perfect place to begin. 1 Joh 4:18 “Perfect love casts out fear”. When you know you are truly loved and adored by God, your Creator, you will 3. Close the Door to Fear in Re- then begin to receive and give lationships-Take authority over love freely. You can now walk your fears in relationships. Your in authority over the thoughts of spouse can never make you feeling neglected and unloved. feel beautiful, strong, valuable This disarms the enemy and or confident unless you already keeps others from entering in believe that about yourself. You and destroying the marriage. need the reinforcement from your spouse but you cannot put HOW DO I USE MY SPIRITUAL the sole responsibility on your AUTHORITY AT WORK? spouse to determine your value. You must first know that you are 1. God is your Source- Your job valued by God which makes you is truly a tool to take care of your priceless. It can be daunting to family and also to further the the spouse always trying to con- Kingdom of God. Just as the vince you of your worth. Also, brook dried up for Elijah so somemarriage is not a competition. times our source of income can You are on the same team and change. When we believe and should be working towards the understand that God is our true same goal. Love freely regard- Source then we will be a better less of what you get in return. employee. We understand that if Don’t love with strings attached something is taken that God will and with ultimatums because replace and with even more. In then it becomes manipulation the world we live in things are uninstead of genuine love. We are stable but with the God we serve