Faith Filled Family Magazine July 2016 | Page 85

Absolutely! Am I ready for her leave home? Not so sure. Even writing this right now is making me realize just how much I’m going to miss my daughter. She is my first-born, and the first to leave home. Sending a child off to college is the fulfillment of the parent’s desire to give their children a bright future. It’s not always what the child wants, though. So in this case, I’m very thankful that my daughter has chosen to go to college. She has also done her research and has chosen (and was accepted) to a good school. This is what will make the transition a little easier. I know my daughter is not just leaving home to prove a point, but leaving home to pursue her purpose. “It’s all new and exciting to a teenager leaving home for the first time to be on their own. For a parent, however, there are mixed emotions.” Sometimes it’s not off to college, but rather off to live their own lives that they may choose. They may leave the home by getting married and joining another family. This is also a happy occasion yet not always the path the parent(s) would choose for their son or daughter at that particular time. Whatever the path, we as parents have to keep in mind that it is their lives to live. All we can do is hope we have instilled the right things in them so that they make the right choices. Reading scripture aloud and helping them understand it, living the example of a godly lifestyle before them, and being prayerful with them, are all good and expected things to do in a godly home. Yet when all is said and done, we really have to trust