F-Style Chicago Magazine Issue 7 7 | Página 17

When she looked in the mirror, she did not see her own reflection but she saw image they saw and she became afraid. She was afraid of not knowing who she was so she began giving herself away to others in hope of gaining an identity. In giving she sought to gain love and affection but instead gained heartaches and disappointments. She sought to gain acceptance and respect but instead gained brokeness and rejection. So she continued to give. But the the more she gave the less she had until there was nothing left for her to give. And there she stood; fragmented and broken into pieces for she had reached her end, she had given all of herself to others. It was then that she began to realize that it was she who allowed herself to be devalued and shamed. It was she who allowed her virtue to leave and her beauty to be hidden from her. She had become so afraid of not being loved and aceped that she let others make her into something that she was not. She accepted who they said she was and not the woman who she knew she was within. She was so use to looking at herself through the eyes of others that she could not see her own reflection in the mirror. 17/F-STYLE CHICAGO