Extol Sports June 2017 | Page 40

BodyBuilderMom POWERED BY EXTOL SPORTS, LAC & WHAS 11 By Angie Fenton Excuses Are Like... I recently saw before and after photos of a 40-something-year-old woman who had gained more than 60 pounds while pregnant and, a year later, was fitter than she’d ever been. You go girl, I thought, feeling inspired by her success. And then I saw she was a mother of five, worked full-time, active in her church, a member of several charity boards and cared for her home in a way that would make Martha Stewart proud. Su d d e n l y , my i n sp i rat i o n tu r n e d t o embarrassment. If she could juggle all of that and get into the best shape of her life, what was wrong with me? That’s when the excuses started flowing. There’s no excuse: I CAN do this and I want to. I have to take care of the dogs and cats. I can’t fit in anything else in my day. I’ll get back to it just as soon as __________ is over. I need a day off. If I work out in the morning/night, that’s not fair to my husband. How is he supposed to get ready for work with a toddler and six animals who need us both? There aren’t enough hours in the day. I’ll start my workout and diet regimen again as soon as I get rid of these allergies. I’ve got to do the laundry and vacuum the house. I’ll work out tomorrow. My daughter needs my time. I have to work late. I just can’t right now. But I will soon. Seriously. I mean it. I will be back at it soon. I have to get to work super early. My family/colleagues/pets need me and THAT is my priority. But here’s the thing: Excuses are like opinions — everybody has them. The aforementioned ones? They’re all mine. I have made every excuse in the book and then some to stop me from my goal of getting fit so I can live a longer life with my child, husband and those I love. “I may not be ready to compete in a bodybuilding contest in October like I’d hoped, I am SO exhausted. I need to sleep. I committed to getting fit. I started getting fit. I lost weight. I began to get healthier. And then I didn’t, and I started to make excuses and accepted where I was. I’ll start next week. I’d done enough. I’d lost weight. heart and soul and health need this.” I am overwhelmed. I’m fine where I am, with who I am. I have an online video meeting. SPORTS 38 EXTOL SPORTS / JUNE 2017 but I am ready to start anew,” I text my trainer Ryan Schrink. “It’s time to go hard and heavy. My No excuses this time.