Extol June-July 2018 | Page 78

EXPRESS A Dream Do-Over Wedding planner Laurie Haag and her husband experience the wedding of their dreams BY LAURIE HAAG | PHOTOS BY NATALIE SPAULDING PHOTOGRAPHY AND ASHLEY WALTS PHOTOGRAPHY May 7, 1988, is one of my favorite days ever. It’s the day I married my husband. Fast-forward to May 2018, and I can’t believe 30 years have gone by so fast. When we got married, we were very young. We lacked a lot of resources and we had some unusual rules to follow at our church because I already had a baby. So, our wedding wasn’t exactly a “dream wedding,” and from time to time, we have joked about and discussed redoing it. At our 10-year anniversary, it would have been 76 EXTOL : JUNE/JULY 2018 impossible to redo a wedding celebration as we were in the throes of raising four young daughters and were basically super poor at that time. At our 25-year anniversary, our oldest daughter was due to have her first baby any day during that timeframe. We couldn’t risk mis sing the birth of our granddaughter, or our daughter and son-in- law not being at our party. were sitting beachside during a romantic dinner while on vacation and it just seemed like it was meant to be. He asked if it should be a full-fledged vow renewal, and all I could think was that I just didn’t want it to come off corny. But really, a lot of the traditional ceremony things are what we missed out on, so we felt like it was really important and would be special. So, this year, as we were anticipating 30 years and reminiscing about our life, Bryan asked if I thought we should go for it and re-do the “wedding.” We I had a mere six weeks to plan the whole thing, but I do own three wedding businesses in town, and I have all the experience, resources and friends