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T h e Wedding Issue The pair had been decorating their first joint Christmas tree in November 2015 with ornaments given to them by both families. Says Koerber: “I got distracted with something, and he pointed and said, ‘What’s this one here?’ “I turned around and said ‘Oh, I don’t know.’ I looked at it, and it said, ‘You for the rest of my life,’ and it had a ring tied to it. And then he got down on one knee, and I pretty much blacked out at that point. I don’t remember anything else!” “The second proposal went a lot better,” McClure says. “I wanted to do something understated but meaningful, so I attached the ring to a special ornament as we were putting up our first full Christmas tree together. Unfortunately, Jacquelyn wasn’t wearing her glasses, so it took a bit of prompting to get her to notice it. When she finally spotted it, I dropped to one knee and proposed. From there we went to a surprise dinner with our parents at our favorite restaurant, Wiltshire on Market (in Louisville).” found out that my dad was sick when we started dating, so we went through the whole process of him fighting cancer (and) my parents moving to New York City to get the best treatment. I took over their business and ran it. There were so many changes. My father passed away in February 2015. To have someone be by your side during the darkest points of my life – relationships are easy when things are going great. He had been through my side during the hardest point, and never left my side. We just had such a strong connection. “Since I’m a local business. That was important to me,” she says. “Any time I didn’t, like my photographer, it was just because I waited too long!” “And I knew he was the one from the beginning. He comes from a wonderful family and I saw how he treats his mom. He comes from a similar background – his parents are both still married and they have a good marriage. My parents were so close and had a great marriage. There were no questions.” “My dad grew up right down the road, and also St. John’s Church is right down the road, and that’s where he’s buried,” Koerber says. “You could actually see the church where he’s buried from the location of the wedding. And Chrissy’s stepfather, Jerry Finn, he married us. He’s the same person who spoke at my father’s funeral. It was very much a family event.” And out of the darkness came light. Saying “yes” was an easy decision for Koerber. Wedding planning for their 300 guests took about 11 months. McClure and Koerber tied the knot on Oct. 8, 2016. “We were the best of friends,” she says. “We had gone through so much with each other. We’d just As someone in the wedding industry, Koerber tried to use as many local businesses as possible. Rather than a more traditional wedding venue, the couple chose to get married at the childhood farm of Koerber’s best friend, Chrissy Costello, in Starlight. She designing the perfect event with the help of Nance’s Events, helmed by Brian Nance, who co-own’s Nance’s Florist with his father. Koerber reserved a spot in the front row for her late father during the ceremony and reception, and she even had their invitations addressed from both of her parents, who were married for 39 years when her father passed. “The lady who Focused on the most important financial future in the world... YOURS. presented by extol Podcasting Providing expertise in serving family businesses and entrepreneurs. 101 W. Spring St, Fifth Floor | New Albany, IN 47150 Phone: 812-948-8475 | Fax: 812-948-8732 | www.axiomfsg.com Ginnie Rector, Client Associate Michelle Floyd, CFP ® , Financial Consultant Michael Grau, CFP ® , RICP ® , 44 Vicky Peay, Client Associate Vaughan Scott, MBA ® , CPWA ® , Vice President – Investment Managing Director – Investment Officer EXTOL • Officer AUGUST/SEPTEMBER 2017 Gloria Bommarrito, Senior Registered Client Associate – Officer Eric Ballenger, Senior Vice President – Investment Officer Wells Fargo Advisors is a trade name used by Wells Fargo Clearing Services, LLC. Member SIPC. CAR# 0417-01298 DOWNLOAD OR LISTEN TO THE PODCAST AT EXTOLMAG.COM