Extol April-May 2018 | Page 16

EXAMPLE Gilda’s Club Louisville Brings Its Mission To Southern Indiana BY LISA HORNUNG | PHOTOS BY CHRISTIAN WATSON IN DE C E MB E R 2015, A l a n He c h t o f Leavenworth was in his mid-60s, enjoying his life with his wife, children and grandchildren, when he got devastating news: He had pancreatic cancer. He had eight rounds of chemo, Whipple surgery (a procedure to remove the head of the pancreas, the first part of the small intestine or duodenum, the gallbladder and the bile duct), then eight more rounds of chemo, then 30 rounds of radiation. The whole process took a toll on his life and his marriage. 14 EXTOL : APRIL/MAY 2018 “We were kind of getting after each other’s throats,” admitted Hecht. His wife, Jackie, did some research and found Gilda’s Club, at 633 Baxter Avenue in Louisville. The two went and were interviewed, and they were placed into support groups that fit for their circumstances. Jackie was put in a group of people whose spouses were battling cancer, and Alan was put into a group of people with cancer. “And you start to realize that you can talk to people on the same level as you with no barriers, and you go, ‘Hey you’re not so unusual after all.’ And what spouses do from the other side is trying to help their spouse heal as well. They just gave us a new sense, a new direction. Helped us understand, hey we’re not so unusual, even though we’re fighting all the same battle.” Gilda’s Club was founded in 1995 by comedian and actor Gene Wilder, the widower of comedian Gilda Radner, who died of ovarian cancer in 1989. Wilder teamed up with Joanna Bull, Radner’s therapist, and movie critic Joel Siegel, who later