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A G R E E ME N T S & C O MMI T Pl ease k eep confident i al t he det ai l s of what ot her s At t i mes we may shi ne t he t or ch shar e i n her e. Thi s goes wi t hout sayi ng, but l et ’ s poi nt i ng out when y ou’ r e oper at spel l i t out anyway . Thi s i s a saf e space wher e no l onger ser v es y ou. We mi ght peopl e ar e abl e t o shar e i n an unfil t er ed way , wi t h t he ans wer and sol ut i on. We’ r e h t he knowl edge t hat i t ’ s not spok en about out si de t hi s t o do t he heavy l i f t i ng f or y ou ( i space or ‘ gossi ped about ’ . get st r ong, not y ou) . You got t a d and somet i mes t hose pr ess- ups own sel f enqui r y . I n t hese mome can come up ( def ensi v eness, r e ‘ coachabi l i t y & sel f account abi l i t t o genui nel y enqui r e i nt o t hi s f or Her e’ s an exampl e of Deep Sel f Responsi bi l i t y wi t hi n t ool s on t hi s page i n how y ou ca t hi s space: Somet i mes when peopl e shar e somet hi ng, down t o t hi s. Bei ng WI LLI NG t o i t can t r i gger somet hi ng wi t hi n us. Thi s t r i gger i ng i s f or y ou’ v e nev er seen bef or e VERS y ou t o expl or e and OWN. The per son who shar ed t he al ways done i t , def endi ng y our c t hi ng t hat t r i gger ed y ou, i s NOT r esponsi bl e f or what We’ r e r oot i ng f or y ou her e and h has been t r i gger ed wi t hi n y ou. You ar e. Own i t . Expl or e y ou’ r e doi ng y our pushups. i t ) Expl or e/ shar e y our exper i ences, and k eep i t t o YOUR exper i ences. I t hel ps t o l eav e out t he det ai l s/ name of t he ot her per son. Ar e y ou her e f or t he r easons t ha Respect ot her peopl e' s poi nt s of vi ew, exper i ences and pr ocessi ng. I f y ou ar e t r i gger ed by anyt hi ng, i t s an oppor t uni t y t o l ook wi t hi n y ou. What comes up f or y ou ar ound t hi s? Look under neat h t he ‘ st or y’ about t hem and see what ’ s t her e f or YOU. Wher e el se does t hi s come up i n ot her ar eas of y our l i f e? OR ar e y ou her e t o sol i ci t cl i ent Chec k i n wi t h y our sel f and be h i nt ent i ons ot her t han y our own g wi t h t he cl ar i t y of t he space. Tha ‘ posi t i on’ y our sel f as t he coach i y our ‘ coachi ng name’ ( y es! We’ v v ei l ed at t empt at sel f posi t i oni ng f or t he r easons t he space i s des 13 EXPANSION CARE PACK // OCTOBER 2017 COPYRI GHT © 2017 HENARE AND KATE O’ BRI EN