Ewya Magazine Ewya Magazine Issue 1 June 2016 | Page 15

of Happiness How can we achieve happiness? Let us consider the above definitions carefully. The main keyword in the definition is “want”. Trouble starts when we want something. Every moment of our lives we keep wanting one thing, or another. Many of my clients will tell you that I figuratively smack them upside the head, if they use the word want or need in my presence. We all manifest and create our futures through the energy of our thoughts, deeds, and words. When you manifest you always do so in the present and the positive tense. It is important to maintain an attitude that what you are manifesting is already yours. This results in your desires being manifested rapidly. If you use words like need or want, they are negative words. This indicates that you are desperate for something or that you lack something else. This attitude and the continual use of these words will keep you in a negative state. For example, if you say “I want to be happy”, you will always be in a state of wanting to be happy. If you say: “I need to be happy”, you will always be in a state of needing to be happy. The conclusion : you will never gain happiness. The Art of Playing by Candice Wilson Another mistake people make is, to continually ask negative questions. Have you heard of an afformation? An afformation is a way of reprogramming your mind through the use of asking your mind positive questions. Whenever you ask yourself a question, your mind will go out and actively seek the answer to your question, and it will draw circumstance to you that will confirm the question you have asked. For example, if you ask. Why am I so unhappy? Your mind will focus on finding all the negative attributes in your life to confirm your question. Therefore, you need to change the question to “why am I so happy?” This will result in your mind looking for a reason as to why your life is so happy and wonderful. Every one of us has a list a mile long of things we wanted but did not get, if you look back on the list you will see that many of the things you were asking for, were when you asked in a negative sense and a state of wanting. That is why they did not come to you. So stop looking back on what you are lacking in your life and move forward into positively manifesting your future. Ewya June 2016 - 15