A Natural Lift
Research shows that 40% of the male
population suffer from a low libido. When you
partner is suffering from erectile problems it
can cause many problems in a relationship
and leave both partners with self-esteem
issues. Science is now proving that eating the
correct foods can boost the libido.
For a woman when her man can no longer
“get it up” or “keep it up”, it can cause
relationship and esteem issues. She may
start to doubt her own attractiveness.
Thoughts like he is no longer attracted to me
or no longer finds me sexy, start to go through
her mind the longer the erectile issues
continue, the worse the woman feels about
herself. Many women even consider the idea
that he is seeing someone else, and that’s
why it is not working the way it did.
The woman will then stop trying to initiate sex
for fear of been reject. For a woman, if you
can’t give your man a lift you start to take the
blame on yourself, there must be something
you are doing wrong or something wrong with
you. Most women take a long time to realise
the fault is not with them but their man.
For a man, his hard on is his pride and joy
and the ultimate sign of being a man. When
his equipment starts to falter and, fail., it can
be absolutely devastating. So often there first
recourse is to blame their lady. Who is
already blaming herself? He is very
embarrassed by the failure to launch. When
the problem persists, he starts to feel
ashamed of his failure as a man. He is
humiliated. Sex at this time is at a very
vulnerable stage, the lady is feeling
unattractive, and the man is focused on his
flagging member. The more he focuses on it,
the softer it becomes and it is another dismal
failure. Both partners can start to form some
very negative belief patterns at this stage.
For the man, he can become too scared to
try again in case it doesn’t happen and starts
to avoid sex, and the woman is just feeling
worse about her appearance and appeal as
a sexual woman and is less inclined to even
want sex.
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Both parties are now in a state of anxiety
over the act, and neither wants sex anymore.
Each time there is a failure in the bedroom it
reinforced the individual’s beliefs about their
own issues. The periods between intimacy
become longer and longer. It is said, that sex
is only 10% of a relationship but if there are
problems in the bedroom, it becomes 90% of
the problems in the relationship.
Sexual intimacy is vital to the success of a
relationship. When a couple makes love, a
hormone called oxytocin is released. This is
the same hormone that is released when a
woman breast feeds a baby. It is a feel good
hormone and it serves to bond the mother and
baby. The same hormone can bond a couple
together. Which makes them like each other
more and overlook each other’s faults more
when they are having regular sex. When a
couple is not bonded, every little thing will
irritate them and fights will happen over all
sorts of small silly things.
Numerous things can affect the libido from
stress to clogged arteries. Weight and
exercise can play an issue. Low testosterone
levels may also be a factor. Eating natural
foods can help with the libido, but if the
symptoms persist medical advice should be
sort.
Libidio
Enhancing Foods
Banana
Rich in Bromelain & vitamin B which improves
your sex drive.
Basil
Boosts sex drive, increase fertility and
circulation.
Celery
Boosts androsterone which is an odorless,
aphrodisiac secreted in male perspiration.