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OVERCOMING “PINTEREST MOMENTS” A critical concept Sarah has learned and passed along to her team and customers is overcoming “Pinterest moments”—those online glimpses into someone’s life, all glitzed and glamorized. “So often we compare social media to our reality, and it’s simply not the case,” Sarah says emphatically. “We assume that’s what others’ lives are really like and wonder why ours aren’t like that. ‘Why am I not the perfect mom? Why am I not as successful as that builder or as pretty as that Diamond?’” Sarah works to limit such comparisons in her business and her life, remembering that “social media is a compilation of ‘Pinterest moments’ that people want us to see. None of them represent reality, and comparing ourselves, whether you’re just starting to build a business or are a seasoned veteran, will rob you of joy and even identity. So don’t—your journey is your own.” then that’s the direction I need to push. I have always come out better by working through the fear.” After less than two years of building, Sarah hit Diamond—while living in Korea—but one of her greatest fears came to fruition. “I was accused of only doing my dōTERRA business and had put my family on the back-burner. It hurt. It was a harsh truth,” Sarah says sadly. “I thought of stopping my business— orders, enrolling, everything—but after talking with my husband, we decided to keep going.” With her decision, she and her business continued to grow. “Teaching especially fueled me forward. After teaching more classes, I knew deep down that the words I’d heard weren’t about me— though I did need to do more with my family. I used the tools I developed to make sure that, even while teaching five to eight classes a week, I was still helping my kids and husband feel loved and doing things with them: day-to-day activities, special bedtime routines, and a date night at least once a month.” Looking back, Sarah doesn’t regret her decision to stick with dōTERRA. “I was terrified that going ‘all in’ with my business would hurt my family and that the balance would be impossible, but it’s been quite the opposite. The balance is a struggle, yes, but it has helped our family’s relationships and brought us together in a way that would’ve never been possible before.” Results not typical. Average earnings are less. See dōTERRA Opportunity and Earnings Disclosure Summary on doterra.com. doterra.com 27