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1 MONTH PRIOR 2 WEEKS PRIOR THE WEDDING DAY
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Finalize ceremony with officiant (readings/vows).
Get marriage license and fill out documents for any
name changes.
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Break in wedding shoes.
Go for final dress fitting (bring shoes and accessories).
WEEK OF WEDDING
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Finalize all transportation for wedding day.
Review music playlist with DJ or band.
Buy a guest book or create a DIY-project for
For an at-home wedding, stock the bar based on
Create seating chart for reception and print place
cards/signage.
Send a timeline of the wedding day and a
responsibility sheet to the wedding party and
Review photography shot list with photographer.
your guest list.
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Finalize any and all honeymoon plans.
Purchase thank you gifts for wedding party and
guests to sign.
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Give caterer/venue final head count for reception.
family members so that you will be stress-free.
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Have checks ready for vendors; include gratuity.
Eat small, light meals.
Give yourself at least three hours to get ready
before the ceremony (or first look).
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Have hair and makeup done.
Have the wedding certificate signed by the best
man and maid of honor.
⎕ Switch engagement ring to right hand/finger.
⎕ Exchange any presents with soon-to-be-spouse.
⎕ Be ready to party!
Pack wedding day emergency kit (granola bar,
makeup, safety pins, extra pair of hosiery, etc.).
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Pack for the honeymoon (if applicable).
Pick up wedding dress at the bridal boutique.
Confirm tux rentals (or pick up suit from tailor).
Head to a spa or salon for a massage, manicure
and pedicure with your bridal party.
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Rehearse the ceremony and attend dinner; pass
out any gifts.
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Drop off welcome bags for out-of-town guests.
PLEASE NOTE: This timeline is based on a one-year engagement. Vendor booking needs can vary widely depending on popularity and availability, so do your research!
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