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{ the planner } Countdown 1 MONTH PRIOR 2 WEEKS PRIOR THE WEDDING DAY ⎕ ⎕ ⎕ ⎕ ⎕ ⎕ ⎕ Finalize ceremony with officiant (readings/vows). Get marriage license and fill out documents for any name changes. ⎕ ⎕ ⎕ ⎕ ⎕ ⎕ Break in wedding shoes. Go for final dress fitting (bring shoes and accessories). WEEK OF WEDDING family members. ⎕ Finalize all transportation for wedding day. Review music playlist with DJ or band. Buy a guest book or create a DIY-project for For an at-home wedding, stock the bar based on Create seating chart for reception and print place cards/signage. Send a timeline of the wedding day and a responsibility sheet to the wedding party and Review photography shot list with photographer. your guest list. ⎕ Finalize any and all honeymoon plans. Purchase thank you gifts for wedding party and guests to sign. ⎕ Give caterer/venue final head count for reception. family members so that you will be stress-free. ⎕ ⎕ Have checks ready for vendors; include gratuity. Eat small, light meals. Give yourself at least three hours to get ready before the ceremony (or first look). ⎕ ⎕ Have hair and makeup done. Have the wedding certificate signed by the best man and maid of honor. ⎕ Switch engagement ring to right hand/finger. ⎕ Exchange any presents with soon-to-be-spouse. ⎕ Be ready to party! Pack wedding day emergency kit (granola bar, makeup, safety pins, extra pair of hosiery, etc.). ⎕ ⎕ ⎕ ⎕ Pack for the honeymoon (if applicable). Pick up wedding dress at the bridal boutique. Confirm tux rentals (or pick up suit from tailor). Head to a spa or salon for a massage, manicure and pedicure with your bridal party. ⎕ Rehearse the ceremony and attend dinner; pass out any gifts. ⎕ Drop off welcome bags for out-of-town guests. PLEASE NOTE: This timeline is based on a one-year engagement. Vendor booking needs can vary widely depending on popularity and availability, so do your research! ENGAGED IN SOUTHERN NEW ENGLAND 2020 | 17