August 11, 2018 | Flavio D Photography
Melody & Bruce
The Meet Cute: Bruce's and Melody's love story truly begins in 2012 when they were both
entering their careers in education as Teaching Fellows at the Epiphany School in Dorchester,
MA. “I had known Bruce through his older brother, but it wouldn’t be until 2012 that we would
really get to know one another,” Melody explains.
The Engagement: After four years of dating, Bruce planned a surprise proposal at the Boston
Commons in the very spot where he first told Melody he loved her. “I thought we were there
to surprise his friend who had returned home from a tour overseas, and as we were walking, I
actually spotted Flavio, our photographer!” Melody says. She didn’t think much of it, but when
she pointed Flavio out, Bruce panicked. “He began talking and dropped to one knee… I honestly
don’t remember what he said,” Melody admits. “I just remember screaming and answering, ‘Of
course!'” Bruce also had a celebration with all of their loved ones planned for that night.
The Planning: Melody’s wedding vision from day one: minimalistic, natural and green with farm
tables (emphasis on farm tables). “When I was introduced to our planner, Sarah, I explained what
I wanted, and it was exactly her taste, as well! I knew I had to hire her because we were just so
in sync," Melody says. "There was no way that vision could have been carried out without her.”
The Aisle Thoughts: “I was speechless," Bruce recalls. "Her beautiful smile made me know
that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. It was a dream come true. My vows were
crossing my mind and all I could think was, ‘Finally!’”
The Vows: When it comes to composing your own (as Melody and Bruce did for their
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nuptials), the couple suggests starting the writing process in a space where you feel
most comfortable. “Begin with identifying the commitments and promises you want to
make, and then outline them with why they are important to you and your future with
this person,” Melody says. “Don’t be afraid to leave your whole heart out on the page.”
Another wise tip from the bride: “We also each had a beer before writing ours.”
The First Dance: Both being Cape Verdean, Bruce and Melody wanted a song that
represented their culture and style of dance known as Pasada. And so, when Bruce
discovered “I.L.Y. (I Love You)” by Djodje, they knew they needn’t look any further.
The Highlights: “Getting ready with my mom, mother-in-law and bridesmaids at the
Airbnb. It was so stress-free, peaceful and on-time. Also, walking down the aisle with my
dad towards Bruce was really surreal, and finally hearing his vows was so amazing to
experience and share with our friends and family.” — Melody
“Mine would have to be the ceremony, as well. I enjoyed being able to look out and see
our friends and family all in one place. Also, the reception because everyone seemed to
have a great time and I enjoyed showing off my new wife!” — Bruce
The Advice: “Take your time!" Melody says. "Enjoy your engagement and practicing
calling one another 'fiance.' When it is time to plan, be clear about whose opinions you are
actually listening to. Family can feel as though they automatically have a say in how things
should go. Having those conversations often and early will help avoid any drama later on.”