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Countdown 1 MONTH BEFORE 2 WEEKS BEFORE THE WEDDING DAY ● finalize ceremony with off iciant (readings/vows) ● give caterer/venue final head count for reception ● eat small, light meals ● get marriage license and fill out document for ● finalize all honeymoon plans ● give yourself at least three hours to get ready name change ● break in wedding shoes ● have hair and makeup done ● go for final dress fitting (bring shoes and accessories) ● purchase gifts for wedding party and family members ● finalize all transportation for wedding day ● review photography shot list with photographer ● review music playlist with DJ or band ● buy a guest book or create a DIY project for guests to sign ● for an at-home wedding, stock the bar based on your guest list ● create seating chart for reception and print place cards before the ceremony WEEK OF WEDDING ● have the wedding certificate signed by the best man and maid-of-honor ● send a timeline of the wedding day and a responsibility sheet to the wedding party and ● switch engagement ring to other hand/finger ● exchange presents with soon-to-be-spouse family members so that you will be stress-free on the wedding day ● have checks ready for vendors; include gratuity ● pack wedding day emergency kit (makeup, extra pair of hosiery, etc.) ● pack for the honeymoon ● pick up wedding dress at the bridal boutique ● confirm tux rentals (or pick up suit from tailor) ● go to a spa or salon for a massage, manicure and pedicure ● rehearse the ceremony and attend dinner; pass out gifts ● drop off welcome bags for out-of-town guests PLEASE NOTE: This is based on a one year engagement. Vendor bookings can vary depending on how in-demand they are — so be sure to do your research! RHODE ISLAND MONTHLY'S ENGAGED 2018 | 15