Emmanuel Magazine March/April 2018 | Page 9

My “Death Metal” Kids: Closet Sacramentalists like passage through “thin” places and times that makes it possible to transcend the self and self-satisfied in one’s quest for some Other. In classic sacramental fashion, they experience the reciprocity of which the media scholar John Culkin, SJ (1928-1993) was speaking when, echoing Saint Augustine, he observed: “We become what we behold. We build our tools and thereafter they build us.” The energizing quid-pro-quo at the center of my kids’ lives consists in them giving away great swaths of sound to their frenzied admirers with little thought of recompense, only to find themselves enriched by the exchange. It’s a Fraction Rite they perform nightly to the crackling choir of amps. Something deeply personal and life-out-of- death-giving is torn asunder in their hands to be shared with friends and later tokenized in an array of “merch” objects that, despite being their chief means of revenue, mimic the sacramentals and devotional items available in the Church’s great pilgrimage sites for ages. They inhabit a world that is nothing if not “enchanted,” one suffused with symbolic meaning and revelatory of some hidden truth that lies just beneath. There are those within the Catholic fold, I am sure, who would be quick to exclude my children from any proper celebration of the Church’s rites for fear the very “edginess” of their appearance might vitiate the proceeding. It’s true, they straddle the edge of society, stand at its outskirts, cling to its outermost valences in a way that seems to have been the special prerogative of young people in modern Western cultures for decades now. Like many in their peer group, they are suspicious of those institutions by which older generations have succeeded in making a regular mess of the world. This includes the Church, of course, whose fundamental explanation of the human experience seems so at odds with their own. An Underlying Openness Nevertheless, they remain perfect candidates for the kind of gentle re- evangelization of the baptized Pope Francis has made a hallmark of his pontificate, especially given their attraction to modes of personal expression rich in myth and metaphor and more closely aligned with poetry than with prose. 75