Cyber-Flirting
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So basically what is flirting? How do we flirt? Is it the same as we performed day-to-day flirting with other ladies out there instead of doing it in a virtual world? I am particularly interested to discover how flirting habits correlated with modern trends and innovations, such as the rise of social networking such as Facebook, Instagram, twitter and etc. and also the rise of instant messages (IMs) such as WhatsApp, SnapChat, KakaoTalk, WeChat, and etc. Flirting is commonly known amongst us as behave in a sexual way to attract the gents and the ladies but it is not taken seriously. Don’t get confuses with the term ‘cheating’ because those two does not mean the same. Cheating means someone who is committed in a relationship and breaks the trust of his/her partner by getting physically and emotionally involved with another person. Thus when a flirting happens in a technology environment it is known as cyber-flirting. It can be anyone who flirts or be provocative towards the gents and/or towards the ladies via texts, social networking sites, e-mails and etc. but will avoid talking or meeting face-to-face. Signs of Cyber-Flirting In cyberspace it is much more difficult to flirt because body needs to be represented through text and face is represented through an avatar. That is why; people always tend to choose their best pictures for avatars. In order to gain attention of their crush online, people change their profile pictures more often. In addition, it can be happening via Instant Messages (IMs) where for all of a sudden a recipient could receive a sexually-interested text messages from an unknown number or an unknown account holder of the sender.
(Digital News Asia (Jan 07, 2014)Beautiful girls seduce victims into performing embarrassing acts during ‘intimate’ video chat Threaten to disseminate footage unless victims pay anything from RM500 to RM5,000 CYBERSECURITY Malaysia (CSM) has warned the public of ‘cyber flirts’ who are part of online blackmail rings that mainly target teenaged boys and middle-aged men.The perpetrators are suspected to be foreign nationals, most probably males with female accomplices, CSM said in a statement.
They have set up hubs in various locations, including in Malaysia, and use social networking sites like Facebook, Tagged and online video chat such as Skype, to carry out their activities.
The crime has become a serious global issue, with people losing money and risking their reputations, said CSM, the national cyber-security agency under Malaysia’s Ministry of Science, Technology and Innovation. Victims are asked to pay anything from RM500 to RM5,000. “We referred the issue to the police for further investigation and so that the culprits can be dealt with accordingly. “By the end of 2013, the number rose to 73, which is 18.5 times more. This huge increase in incidents triggered the alarm. We believe there are more incidents out there that have not been reported to us.Based on an analysis of about 80 reported incidents, CSM believes it has identified the modus operandi of a typical cyber blackmail operation. The perpetrator usually creates a profile on Facebook or Tagged, portraying herself as a beautiful, sexy woman purportedly from the Philippines, Japan or Korea. She would then identify a man as a potential victim and befriend that man on Facebook or Tagged.The perpetrator would flirt with the victim and lure him to an intimate video chat using Skype. During the video chat, the perpetrator would take off her clothes and seduce the victim into performing embarrassing acts, while she secretly records the session. The perpetrator would later play the video footage to the victim and blackmail him into remitting a certain amount of money via Western Union or a third-party bank account, threatening to otherwise circulate the video on Facebook or YouTube.
by Muhammad Amir,
Issue in Computer Security
CSM said that if you fall victim to such blackmail, you should:
• Discontinue and refrain from communicating with the perpetrator. Ignore and disregard all calls, SMSes or messages from that person;
• Remove the perpetrator from all your social media friends or contact list; or put her into your ‘blocked’ list;
• Make all your social networking accounts private so the perpetrator will not be able to reach you or your friends;
• Keep all relevant data such as chat logs, screenshots and emails as evidence for reporting and prosecution purposes;
• Not pay the blackmailer as it may propagate the act;
• Lodge a police report, together with evidence for them to further investigate
• Make a report to CSM’s Cyber999 Help Centre for further assistance by emailing to cyber999@cybersecurity.my or by calling 1-300-88-2999(monitored during business hours). In case of emergencies outside regular working hours, send an SMS text message to +6019 2665850.CSM also advised Internet users in general to:
• Be aware that anything you do on the Internet, including video and voice calls, can be recorded and manipulated for malicious purposes;
• Adhere to best and ethical practices when you are on social networking sites and chat forums;
• Be very cautious about whom you they befriend online;
• Be alert and suspicious of any unusual activity on the Net, and immediately report it to the relevant authorities;
• Configure, as a preventive measure, your Skype to restrict communication to your contact list only by doing the following: Go to >Tools > Options > Privacy > Only Allow IMs, Calls etc from People on my Contact List > SAVE
• Always make sure your software and systems, including security software, are up to date; and
• Never use your webcam to make a video call to someone you do not know.