relationships among the people of God are now a reflection of what ' s in the world rather than a replica of what ' s in the Word . Love itself has not changed . It is built solely on your acts-what you do , what you give-your every act of kindness .
Love is verified through deeds of kindness . It hasn ' t lost its luster , its purpose , its drive , or its assignment . It has and always will do what it was originally intended to do . In order to receive the complete manifestation of it , we have to give up our own selfish , inconsiderate and insensitive perception and definition of love and take on the real genuine meaning of it . For the bible defines love as God .
Love ' s definition is so plain and simple , but its people who have made it so complex . In this is generation , most efforts to find love are initiated with dreams of settling down with the fine biceps , nice body , beautiful hair , and that exceptionally financial-friendly person , not realizing that this mindset of settling down is rather more in lines of settling for the imitation version of love . Understand that having someone who ' s handsome and beautiful with money is not the problem . The dilemma is failing to decipher what takes precedence over the other in relationship . Do they love you ? or have they fallen head-over-hills in love with what you have ? This is not a gender-specific error , for it applies to male and female . People have simply reconstructed the meaning of love and its attributes to fit them and their own personal agenda , and wonder why relationships often result in death . Understand that when it comes to building anything , especially relationships , the initial start of the construction , the foundation , influences the assembly of the entire building . If your relationship foundation is built on anything other than the things that ' s designed to make it durable and stand against the poundings of the heat , rain , and winds , it will sooner or later tumble . At some point , no matter how good it looks , or appear to others , it will come down . How your life of love is built matters .
What Bait Are You Using to Attract Love ?
On a journey for love , we have a tendency to display the very thing we want others to like or love about us most . For example , women and men alike , whether consciously or subconsciously , tend to highlight tangible things such as cars , homes , money , etc .; financial statuses , physical physiques , careers , and ministry are included . Please don ' t misinterpret this to suggest that all those things carry no weight in relationships , because to a certain degree they do . However , on a search for love , the thing you really need to place emphasis on most is the real genuine qualities of you-no makeup , body parts , financial status , or anything of such . Displaying all these outer qualities draws attention away from the real you . Therefore , leading others to love what you do best ; enticing them to place emphasis on your body parts , careers , and monetary status more than you . At the end of the day , when real love comes , it ' s looking for you . This rings true in all relationships , whether seeking a spouse , friend , job , business , or even relationships in ministry . You ' d be surprised to the many people who falls in love with the idea of marriage or the wedding more so than the person they ' re marrying or married to . Many relationships are held together by finances ; as many are also intact as long as he or she retains their physical physique . You must remember that the adhesive you use to hold your relationship together will fasten as long as you use the right glue . If the glue you use loses its ability to stick , whatever ' s held together by it is at risk of falling apart . With that being said , to ensure real genuine love in your relationships , take advantage of the glue , the love , the God that ' s able to make it stick and last . This is the love that is defined and generated by God .
Your Relationship with God Reflects