I believe goals are mere stepping stones leading us to a destination. Some goals require us to have an intense, pinpointed focus to the extent we fail to view the scenery around us. Other goals are loosely tied together with “maybe’s”, and can send us on a rollercoaster ride of experiences filled with up’s and down’s, and unexpected sharp corners. When taking on the latter type of goals, some individuals find the middle of the road and traverse cautiously, taking time to smell the roses.
My style is much more organic - I typically wander on and off the trail of stepping stones and get lost in a jungle of pretty, shiny objects. Of course, this forces me to pause, and ask myself, “Where are you going, Cynthia?” This for me, is where the magic happens - some may wonder - Do I have regrets? The answer is No. No way, no how! For me, It’s all about the experiences along the way.
“I am no longer afraid of becoming lost, because the journey back always reveals something new, and that is ultimately good for the artist.”
― Billy Joel
As I consider my life journey, I am grateful for each person I have met along the way. Each person has given me something no one else could have - their unique insight. Each interaction I have had has been supportive of my particular walk through life. I believe wholeheartedly, that there is a message of love in every interaction. It has taken some time and experience to learn and truly accept this, but I have. I’m willing to follow my heart and see the message of love. Yes, Love. It’s easier to receive generous offerings. When conflict arises, I am given the opportunity to see a different perspective. I am gifted the experience to determine what is right for me in that particular moment.
Life is an amazing adventure; it was never intended to be lived in gray-scale.
In gratitude I offer these kind, supportive pearls of wisdom: whether you are taking your first step or your two hundred and twenty-sixth, Baby, you got this...
With love,
C.K. Kochis