Eidelman & Associates What You Need to Know Before Getting a Divorce | Page 4

Signs of a Cheating Partner – Is it time to talk to a Divorce Attorney? • They have a Secret Credit Card • If you ask a divorce attorney, they will confirm that one of the most common reasons to get divorced is that couples lie about their finances. If you have found a secret credit card in your husband's name, the chances are that they have been helping others shop some nice stuff. When you know that your husband is spending money on something he has not already told you about, it is time to take it seriously and be open about what you feel. It is an extremely important matter, especially if your husband has recently started talking more about financial problems and reasons why he finds it difficult to meet your needs. • They are Too Cool or Too Touchy about Their Phone • It is natural for women to check the cell phones of their partner when they think they are cheating. Well, your spouse knows it too, and that may as well be the reason why they do not mind you checking their phone. If your partner is a bit too cool about the cell phone, take it as a red signal. There is a possibility that they have a second phone and use it for their 'other' activities. Similarly, if your spouse does not want anyone to touch their cell phone and they have it locked all the time, it may also indicate that they have an affair going.