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Make the party know that Children are most
important
If there are kids involved, both parties should stay child-centered throughout
the negotiation. The mediator has to ensure that this happens. He/she should
regularly remind them that children are the most important in the entire saga.
This way, they will agree on terms that will prioritize their kids’ wellbeing.
The role played by a divorce mediator is very significant. Getting two fighting
people to talk soberly and come to an agreement is no easy task. So long as the
mediator stays neutral, fair, and unbiased, the process will be a success. Once
the agreement is done, the mediator should have a draft agreement written and
ensure both parties go through to confirm if it is correct.