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3. Limit Access to Joint Accounts Remember also to review all your accounts and see which accounts are joint accounts. There are times when it will be impossible to close the accounts until you reach a divorce settlement. But you are free to talk to the institutions that you hold the account and let them know of the situation. They could help you limit account access thereby preventing them from being depleted. Conclusion During the divorce proceedings, it is important to carry yourself appropriately. Refrain from speaking angrily and saying things that might be used against you. Do not threaten your ex and also avoid running up massive bills with the joint accounts. Also, do not have conversations with your ex alone during proceedings. If you must have any contact, make sure you do it in the presence of a third party or a representative. If you conduct yourself in a manner that is above reproach, your chances of receiving concessions during a divorce will be much higher, especially if your spouse behaves poorly.