children sleep in the same bed as you,
or whether you strongly feel that they
need to sleep in their own beds, it
does not really matter. What matters
more is that you THOUGHT about it
beforehand, and then DECIDED to
implement whatever arrangement you
did with CONSISTENCY and CLARITY in
your home. Of course you may decide
in two years’ time to change your
mind about the decision, but still you
do this not as a reaction to something
that happened, but as a proactive
change that is implemented. If you do
not have a specific opinion one way or
the other, it is still important that you
think and decide on it, so try to get as
much information and trusted opinions
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about a certain thing so that you can
make a proactive decision before you
have children.
Excerpts
from the book
“Capacity to Parent
– the secrets of the
parenting triangle”
by Clinical Psychologist
Dalene Gous.
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