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Publisher’sNote The Eastern Shore’s Foremost Parenting Source I don’t know if the shock of everything that has happened over the last couple of months will ever fully go away, but like most of you, I am settling into it a little more. Brad and I already worked from home, so that was no change. However, working from home with all three girls home with us was a different story. Summers, we can handle. Activities, friends... lots of things to keep the girls active and occupied. This is different. Unlike summer, the girls still have school responsibilities and no social or extra-curricular activi- ties. But like all parents, I had a plan. The experts say, stick to a schedule. Up and ready for breakfast by 8 am and begin schoolwork by 9 am. Finished by lunch. Perfect! But what sounds good on paper is not always reality, and certainly not how it all went down at my house. Many mornings I get up, get dressed (I am a firm believer in getting dressed and ready every morning) then get distracted with emails or phone calls, and the next thing I know the schedule is toast. Some days it makes me feel like a huge mom fail. But as all of this draws out longer and the stress and cabin fever grows, the schedule was honestly one of the things I just had to let go of, at least for now. After all, the girls have proven to be very responsible with their work, even without the schedule. So, at least for today, we are going with what works for us. We are all adjusting differently and we need to be mindful of our physical AND our mental health. If you have days that just don’t work like you want, it’s okay. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Find what works for you and your family. If you need some ideas for getting in a groove with academics, flip to page 32 where you will find Finish the School Year Virtually: 10 Ways to Help Your Child Stay Strong, by Janeen Lewis. She has some excellent advice for staying on track. Like many of you, we have found some extra time in our schedules, which has afforded us the ability to do more cooking. If you know me well, you know that cook- ing is definitely not one of my strengths. But, with more time and having the girls around, it has been a lot more fun! I think it is a great skill for them to be practicing at this age. Brad has joined in the fun and has been teaching the girls some house maintenance and repair skills. Before you know it, they will be on their own and glad they had these lessons. In fact, we have decided to start working on the list Kimberley Spivey compiled in her article, Life Skills Every High School Graduate Needs, on page 36. Check it out, especially if you have graduating seniors. They will thank you for it...at least one day. Speaking of graduates, it has been heartbreaking to see what these young people and their families are going through. They are missing their prom, gradua- tion parties, and moments of savoring the last few carefree weeks between exams and graduation. So this month we want to give a big shout-out to the Class of 2020 and their families, and help celebrate their achievements as they move into the next chapter of their lives. This month (and in June) we have a Senior Spotlight section to celebrate some of these special graduates. Check it out beginning on page 40. To the grads, CONGRATULATIONS and warmest wishes as you move on to your next great adventure! To everyone, stay safe, be well, and savor the sweet moments. Lynn Publisher Lynn Knighton [email protected] Editor DeAnne Watson [email protected] Associate Editor Kelly Watson Research Editor Christa Weinberg Contributing Writers Christa Melnyk Hines Janeen Lewis Sonia Martin, LICSW, PIP Dave Ramsey Robert L. Rux, M.D. Gerry Paige Smith Kimberley Carter Spivey Cover Photography Aimee Reynolds Phogography www.aimeereynoldsphotography.com President Jason Watson [email protected] Advertising Opportunities Lynn Knighton [email protected] (251) 929-2099 Accounts Manager Eleanor Williams Ad Design Tim Welch Visit us online at www.easternshoreparents.com [email protected] Eastern Shore Parents I May 2020 Eastern Shore Parents Magazine, is founded on the principle that parenting is an exciting, diverse, challenging, and significant, role in our community. Eastern Shore Parents Magazine is a community advocate for families and the parenting process. 6 Eastern Shore Parents magazine is published monthly by KeepSharing, LLC. Mailing address: P.O. Box 374, Montrose, Alabama, 36559. The phone number for voice and fax is (251) 929-2099. Eastern Shore Parents is copyrighted 2017 by KeepSharing LLC. All rights reserved. Reproduction in whole or part without written permission is prohibited. Opinions expressed in Eastern Shore Parents magazine are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the view of the owners, nor do they constitute an endorsement of products and services herein. www.easternshoreparents.com