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TRADITIONS AND CULTURES OF JAPANESE Bowing � DO bow when people bow to you. � DON’T come up until they do. � DO come up before them if you happen to be their superior – otherwise you may be there forever. � DO bend from the waist and keep the back relatively straight. � DO bow with your hands at your sides for men & boys or clasped in the lap women & girls. � DO bend lower than the other person when bowing to older people or those of higher rank (ie your boss). � DO bow again if you are bowed to a second time – sometimes it will take 3 or 4 progressively less deep bows to make it back to full standing. � DON’T bow to children or after purchasing something at a store – foreigners bowing to the 16 year old kid at the 7-11 cash register after buying a sandwich is an all too common GFP. Eating o DO put your palms together and say “Itadakimasu” before eating – it is a polite way of expressing “Thank you for the meal I am about to receive.” o DON’T burp at the table – unlike some Asian countries, burping is rude in Japan. o DO lift bowls of rice, noodles, and small plates off the table to make eating with chopsticks easier. o DON’T lift large plates off the table to eat out of them. o DO be adventurous with trying new kinds of food. o DON’T blow your nose at the table – do it in the restroom. o DO cover your mouth with your other hand when using a toothpick. o DO put your palms together and say “Gochiso sama deshita” after finishing a meal – it is a polite way of expressing “Thank you for all the effort in creating this the feast”.