Dutch Courier August 2012 | Page 18

PAGE 18 August 2012 Dutch Courier Netje woont al heel haar leven in Haarlem, geeft les aan groep 3 (6 tot 8-jarigen). Ze heeft een druk leven met man Eppoh en twee dochters, Wietske van 11 en Brechtje van 10 jaar. [email protected] Hypocriete lijdensweg Het leven van mijn oom werd, tegen alle verwachtingen in, aanzienlijk verlengd met een stoma. Het ging mis toen de kanker terugkwam en hij ongeneeslijk ziek werd verklaard. Uitbehandeld zijn betekent echter niet dat je kort daarna overlijdt. Een lange lijdensweg gepaard met veel pijn en veel te dure pijnstillers werd een feit. Kosten die zijn gezin zich eigenlijk niet kon veroorloven. Maar euthanasie is niet mogelijk in Turkije; net zomin als versterving. Mensen bidden onder het mom van ’verlossing’, maar heimelijk ook voor hun portemonnee, dat hun oude/zieke familielid snel overlijdt. Ik ken Turkse families die hun terminale zieke tegen beter weten in proberen te laten opereren omdat het ’zo hoort’. Het is een schande als je niet alles voor je dierbare overhebt; ook al moet je al je bezittingen, zelfs je huis verkopen. Vaak beschermen artsen deze families door te weigeren om nutteloze operaties en behandelingen uit te voeren. 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