Alcohol AwAreness week
Family focus
Alcohol Awareness Week 2017 shines a spotlight on alcohol and families , sending the message that support is always available . DDN reports
Alcohol Concern has partnered with Adfam for this year ’ s Alcohol Awareness Week , ‘ Alcohol and Families ’, which runs from 13-19 November . The aim is to promote ‘ an honest discussion about alcohol ’, particularly when it comes to the stigma that still exists around families affected by harmful drinking .
The week kicks off with an All-Party Parliamentary Group on Alcohol Harm session on families , and Alcohol Concern has produced a set of free resources including a comprehensive guide to family support services . The pack also includes infographics and factsheets for parents , carers , children and practitioners on subjects like alcohol-related bereavement , setting up a family support group and challenging stigma . People can also order a set of ‘ Rethink your drink ’ scratch cards , which contain useful information about units and sensible drinking guidelines .
The number of dependent drinkers in England is estimated at around 595,000 , and it ’ s thought that around 220,000 children are living with an alcohol-dependent adult . As well as being twice as likely to experience difficulties at school , children of alcohol-dependent parents are also four times more likely to become dependent drinkers themselves .
‘ We know how few people who are alcohol-dependent actually end up engaging with services , and then obviously families are even less likely to seek help ,’ says Alcohol Concern ’ s communications manager , Maddy Lawson . ‘ Lots of people we ’ ve spoken to anecdotally don ’ t even know that there are services available . This week is about trying to get people talking about it , and to try to signpost them towards help .’
‘ What we ’ re trying to do is raise awareness of the fact that there is family support out there – that organisations like Adfam , DrugFAM and Al-Anon are there to support people who are worried about members of their family who may be drinking too much ,’ adds the organisation ’ s director of research and policy development , Dr James Nicholls . ‘ One of the main things we ’ re trying to draw attention to is that people aren ’ t alone . One of the most common feelings is that no one else is experiencing the same things , so we want to try to raise awareness that there is support out there .’
That sense of loneliness is even more acutely felt when a loved one dies an alcohol-related death , compounding the grief by adding a profound sense of shame and isolation . In circumstances like this it ’ s vital for people to reach out , the charity urges .
‘ The Bereaved through Alcohol and Drugs ( BEAD ) partnership between Adfam and Cruse has unfortunately come to the end of its funding , but one of the things that came out of that was that people really felt it was a particularly difficult experience ,’ says Nicholls . ‘ They felt this enormous stigma , enormous sense of guilt and enormous anxiety about how people may react , while some had experienced really problematic reactions from people around them because they just didn ’ t know how to respond . What came out of it was that it was incredibly important to seek support .’
The simple realisation that other people are going through the same thing can be hugely beneficial , he stresses . ‘ Collectively working with each other can be really powerful in overcoming – not the pain of bereavement , because that is what it is – but certainly some of the issues around isolation and anxiety .’
‘ There is support there ,’ he says . ‘ And the more people talk about these issues , the more people might feel comfortable about seeking that support .’
For more information or to download the resources , visit www . alcoholconcern . org . uk / alcohol-awareness-week
‘ We showed her she could manage without alcohol ’
Ellie tells how tailored support transformed a mother and baby ’ s future
WHEN KIRSTY * FIRST CAME INTO THE HACKNEY ORBIT PROJECT , WHERE WE PROVIDE SUPPORT TO PARENTS WITH YOUNG CHILDREN , she was struggling emotionally and experiencing high levels of anxiety . With a baby just a few days old , the 40-year-old mother had been referred by her local hospital , where she had been treated for depression and anxiety .
Kirsty recognised that she needed to find new coping strategies as her drinking was putting her child at risk , but she was scared that she would be unable to manage without alcohol . She had a long history of problematic alcohol use , including a period of dependency , and had suffered with depression for many years .
Initially , I worked with Kirsty in one-to-one sessions while she was on day release from hospital .
In these sessions we explored triggers , her habits and beliefs about her drinking and her relationship with substances . After a couple of appointments , she agreed to us introducing her and her baby to the stay and play area where she was welcomed by the crèche team , the specialist substance misuse midwife and other service users . This helped to put her at ease and she soon felt able to engage with some of the group sessions .
Kirsty maintained abstinence from alcohol use for almost nine months and engaged well with all aspects of Orbit . When she first arrived , her baby was subject to a Child Protection Plan . However , following her positive progress , her case was de-escalated from Child Protection to Child in Need .
Having been with us for just over a year , Kirsty
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